The Importance of Image & Self Esteem

　
The Importance of Image & Self Esteem

We all know that when we look good  (groomed, nicely dressed, fresh from a shower), we feel good. In fact we feel much better. But when you're a full time caregiver, you barely have enough time to sit down and have a cup of coffee, much less, shower, put on makeup, shave (for the men), and present a pulled together image to the world.

We also know that it is human nature for others to react to how one looks. It's not fair, it just is. So the groomed, well dressed person often receives better treatment: men will hold open a door, strangers will smile, children will tell you ' you smell good'. Doctors, nurses, technicians, etc., the community you have to deal with on a regular basis, are people too. And they will react to you in the same way.

So, if you want a better room for your charge, or if you have more questions or concerns, and two caregivers show up, equally needy, who do you think will get the most attentiion and the first response?

Now Image is not only important for evoking positive responses, a positive image will also make you feel good. It will give you a sense of power and control. You will more likely interact and ask for services or ask questions, when you feel at your best. If, when the next emergency arises for your charge, you dash out of the house in you pj's, with mussed hair, dry chipped nails, and any pair of ugly shoes that happened to be near the front door, you may not get any response, or attention at all. Is this fair?  No, but it is human nature.
Not only will the 'community' (this includes anybody and everyone that can help you with this crazy period of your life) react to you positively, your charge will also do the same. Sick, disabled people enjoy beautiful things and pleasing scents too you know! Sometimes it's not on a conscious level, but it will be there.

But who has time to present a well groomed, take charge, fragrant Image, when you barely have time to brush your teeth? Actually I'll explain how you can do this and how it will, in the end, save time.